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Lately I am feeling restless, thinking a lot about my future classroom, future living, future job, & the lack of all these things. I've been having dreams about small cabins in the woods that feel & smell like Jesse's farm house. I never thought I would miss the farm house with its scattered, empty beer cans, mouse traps, & cold nights...but here I am, dreaming about the smell of the fires we would fall asleep listening to, the night I read in front of the fire while Jesse played drums, & when the only sound outside weas the cows mooing & coyotes howling. I miss my country mountains that haven't been plastered with houses & buildings...

jesse & miss lisa at the farm house

In other news...
On Saturday Kat, Carol, Juan Francisco (Carol's host bro) & I went to Otavalo & then a volcano (Cuicocha) that collapsed over 2,000 years ago & is now filled with melted glacier ice creating a beautiful, cold, crystal lake with two earth formations in the middle.

On our way here we stopped in Cayambe for breakfast at a famous little breakfast joint that had a swing zip-line on the playground. Super peligroso y super divertido! (really dangerous & really fun). They were famous for their milk. The restaurant was named "El Cafe de la Vaca" after all (vaca=cow).

We loaded up in a small boat to get to the middle of the body of water (& by loaded, I mean the top of the boat was easily sinking closer & closer to the water. I was pretty scared until we turned around because an entire family was crying, freaking out...when they got out, I quit freaking...at least until the "captain" let another family on so we sunk down again. It's the Ecuadorian way, money first, safety second).

The Village of Cuicocha is small, clean, & not crowded. In other words, it is completely different from ever other Ecuadorian town. There are two volcanic rock islands in the middle of the lake where a hotel & a few restaurants used to sit. Fortunately, the National Parks in Ecuador made them leave & now there are only remnants of the buildings. The abondoned buildings are hidden from the rim of the volcano & they are creepy & lonely in the middle of the water way that goes over the connected volcanoes, but as soon as you get through the water way there is an even more ominous man-made object sitting on the mountain: the virgen. The statues/dolls are everywhere in Ecuador, but I found this very strange. There she was, in a small cave dug-out for her to precide over this volcano with a bench in front of her for anyone who wanted to get off the boat in the freezing glacier water to go pray. This confuses me for several reasons, mainly because I don't understand WHY?







Cuicocha- On the right island you can see a small, crak circle; that is the cave with the virgen in it.

Catholicism is a mystery to me, the way everything is done in huge building that cost hundreds of thousands or millions of dollars to build. The traditions, the customs, & goodness gracious all the virgens. A few weeks ago when we went to centro to look at some of the historic buildings & churches we saw stores with baby Jesus dolls in them. They also had different outfits for the dolls. You could have cowboy Jesus, or baseball player Jesus, or hippie Jesus...all in baby doll form. People will bring these baby dolls to church or the alternative type of doll, the virgen. I get it, people need something to hold sometimes, something tangible to project their feelings or beliefs, right? But what about the things that are already here? I mean a glacier lake in the middle of a volcano that still has volcanic gas escaping it's core in the form of bubbles...that seems like a tangible enough thing to pray to if that's your style, why add a concrete virgen in a cave to the mix? Oh well, just another thing I don't understand.

Cowboy baby Jesus

Either way it was a nice day in Otavalo & Cuicocha. I bout some alpaca yarn for $2/ball, some wool/cotton leggings, & some night shoe/socks. So yeah, all grandma stuff.

The Market in Otavalo. It's huge, covers many blocks in the middle of the town, & most everything is made/from Otavalo. 

The next day we went to a Liga soccer game in Casa Blanca. Liga (one of 5-6 small Ecuadorian pro fútbol teams) won 5-0 & it was pretty crazy in the "Muerte Blanca" section on the south side. You know when you watch soccer games on TV & you wonder if they ever stop singing or blowing horns or bangin' on their drums or blowing whistles or jumping...well the answer is no, they don't. It was so cool to watch & I wanted to be in the "student section" version of Liga, but it did say Muerte Blanca which means "dead white" so I was a little nervous. So Kat, Carol, Brittany, & I sat with the families//kids section & enjoyed out $2 40 oz. cervezas & $5 Liga jerseys. After the game we had a great meal at Carol's house (grilled chicken with this homemade creamy  hot sauce, so good I got the recipe, rice of course, ensalada, & her mom made us a wonderful apple pie with almonds in it- yes, I got the recipe for that, too). I also learned how to make empanadas this week so I'll have to give that a try when I get state-side.

all for now.

la

Papallacta (Paradise)

Hopin' the bus in Cumbaya to Papallacta


Soo...Papallacta. I mentioned this place in my first blog post about Ecuador. If you need a reminder, it's the place with the thermal pools my family brought me to one night when I had to wear pants. Don't worry, this time I had a bathing suit & I was ready. The 4 other gals & I arrived in Papa on Saturday pretty early in the day with bags of groceries from Supermaxi in towe. Here's what I brought for our one night stint in Heaven: bathing suit, toothbrush, diabetes stuff, yoga pants, sweat shirt, wallet, 2 boxes of wine, croissants, cheese, avacados, yogurt, & bloody mary supplies...so yeah, I was livin' healthy this weekend.

The hostel we stayed in (Hosteria Pampallacta)was like many of the others we have stayed in: family owned, friendly, flexible. This place was owned by a woman & her son, Pedro. Upon arriving, our room wasn't ready because we had gotten there an hour before check-in. They told us to drop our bags & get in the pools. We didn't argue & then we sank into a pool where we hardly moved until the next day.

The thermals all get their water from the river that flows from the naturally (volcanic) heated springs further up the mountain. Since we were in the clouds on the mountains, it was chilly, but the pools were the perfect temperature. There was one outside & two inside. The inside pools were so hot I could barely put sit in the room on the first day. The smaller room was like a sweat lodge filled with steam...I couldn't even see Fausat sitting in the pool. The owner came & checked on us after a little while & told us that she give "treatments". Treatments!? Of course I want a treatment, especially from a 53 year old woman who looks 32. I signed up for her next available time & continued to soak in sulfur until 4:00 p.m.

While we waited we did many stressful things: like drink coffee, color, read, giggle, & eat parfaits. I know most North Americans can't find it in themselves to relax, but I am not one of those people. I can relax better than most anyone I know, especially after a week of teaching, a month in the city, & Kat getting robbed. We all NEEDED to relax. Then it was time for my treatment.

<< Discovering la ducha y bano (the shower & bath)

<<holy macaroni bathtub

Treatment is a massage, but not in the way you would think. Jesse got me a massage with a professional once & I remember getting naked, putting a towel over my booty, then falling asleep for an hour while the ladygreased me up & rubbed me. It was amazing, but this was totally different. We talked the whole time & she also answered her hotel phone while she was rubbing me. Like I said, it was strange, but I think this woman was magic. You see, when she lifted the blanket (fully clothed massages in Ecuador) to look at my feet, she touched the outside of them, pinched my big toe, & asked me a few questions: "Do you know what this is from?", "You have something very wrong with your kness?" & "Why do you drink so much leche (milk)?"

<<Answer to the milk question: It's so creamy in Ecuador that I can't resist it, especially when it's warm & chocolatey & paired with an empanada de queso

The first question was her kind way of referencing a bone that juts out of my foot. My mom has it, my papa had it, & I have it. I think my cousin Joe may have it, too, but I always assumed it was just something that ran in the Thurmond blood. It also hurts sometimes. I remember when I played softball & basketball it would ache constantly & it still will start to hurt pretty bad on backpacking trips or when I go for a run. When she squeezed, she then asked the second question about my knees. I'm not sure how she knew how screwed up my knees were by squeezing my foot, but she was really concerned. If you know me at all, then you know I was a catcher year-round for about 8 years of my life. Everytime I squat my knees pop & I have holes in each knee where my bones would rub together after every squat & stand. My knees don't usually hurt, but when she shook my foot with my big toe I could hear my knees creeking like haunted wood. No one had every pointed out my deteriorating body this before. She told me I was going to hurt when I was old, worse even than my feet & knees do now when I backpack, hike, or run. I tried to blow it off because what's done is done: I wouldn't take back all of those years catching for anything, nor would I give up the bone in my foot that remind me of my Mom & Papa.

<< Answer #2 to the milk question: $1 tres leche that tastes better than it looks!

Then came the third questions: "Why do you drink so much milk?" Well, for starters. because I like it. Second, how do you know how much milk I drink, lady? She said she knew because the big bones in my feet that I always assumed were genetically wide were actually that way because of all of the dairy I consume. I´m not so sure about this, but she´s probably right about me needing to quit eating so much cheese, yogurt, & milk. So far I haven´t slowed down: milk, cheese, & yogurt are the main course for most of my meals, but I haven been trying to go easier on the rice, papas, etc.




Did I mention our room had a chimenea para fuego!? Below is a picture of it. That night we were all asleep by 10 thanks to some intense yoga with my ipod, a lot of hot bath soaking, & gorging of food/wine/bloody mary, & a long game of never have I ever. The next day Kat & I got up at 7 to yoga for an hour before her massage, we had a lovely breakfast of yogurt (you can see how much of her "no dairy!" sermon had on me), fruit, french toast con nutella, huevos fritas, jugo de naranja, & cafe. I soaked, napped, soaked again, then we eventually made it back to ever crowded Quito.

After 5 days of being back in Quito: There was an earthquake this week, classroom activities crumbled in front of me, I got food poison & stayed up barfing & d-wording all night, my roommate woke me up drunk at 1:30 last night, Chiquita didn't wake up Monday so I went without breakfast & lunch...it was a long week. But one thing great did happen: My family bought tickets to come visit me during Tori's Spring Break, so that made me smile :]

from the bottom of my heart & the middle of Ecuador

I feel my body changing, which is good because my mind & soul certainly are & what a shame it'd be if they left their clothes behind!


 A few things have been leading up to this, but I feel that I am finally sitting, looking at the life around me & simply accepting & enjoying it. I have always chased it, quickly, not thinking about the consequences & wanting to feel alive all of the time. Last summer was the essence of this Lauren in the mountains of California. I was in a world with no cares. Every day was beautiful, there were granite mountains & melting snow feeding my body. I got to play in the woods with kids all day for goodness sake! I smile just thinking about it, but I was chasing then. I think the chase was necessary for me to feel good about sitting: "One should make no effort obtain pleasure, for that would be a waste of life & would not bring the supreme peace that springs alone from the Lord's lotus feet", Sage Prahlada. All I did was chase pleasure, causing many disruptions & wreaking havoc in any small amount of peace I thought I had. Now I'm here, at peace.

I'm not sure what changed in the last 6 months, but I know it's not just one thing. Maybe it was ChelsTan living with me before she left for Thailand & feeling so at home with my best friend. It was nice just to listen to her talk or exchange new songs or hear her excitement when she learned to play a new song on her "gitfiddle" (her word, not mine). That's block one.

Then I was alone. So alone. Everyone needs to be alone sometimes, but with her across the world & Jesse far away in a different way, I had to figure out what I wanted. Chels had made me start going to yoga, I was learning how to teach, reading a ton, writing even more, listening to teenagers whom I love & professors I respect. This was my element: being a student & a teacher (can I be a student-teacher forever, Peg Graham?). I also made new friends which was nice. My new friends talked about books with me & we all went to bed at 9:30 after doing lesson plans with a glass of wine in one hand & fears/anxiety in the other (what can I say, English teachers). I screwed up....a lot. I had a few meltdowns (thank goodness only one was at school during lunch time, not in front of students, the rest were in the car going home). Jesse never left my side, always supportive of my teaching ways, understanding my obsessions with doing well, but calming me when I didn't with his overt simplicity: "Lauren, it's only one day", "Lauren, don't give yourself so much credit for screwing them up", & my favorite, "Laur, be OK with being OK." I'm not as much of a perfectionist as my parents or my sister, but I have always wanted to be the BEST at my job: the best counselor, the best leader, the best student, & now, the best teacher. I will never be the best, but I will be OK, & that is OK. Yes, I still want to be awesome & I will try really hard to keep those kids interested & learning every day, but I am OK with that not always turning out how I wanted it to. I am figuring out who I am as a teacher, as a daughter, as a friend, as a traveler, as a yogi, as a sister, as a student...& that is OK.

< in California, eatin' chips on a rock in a one piece

In other words, I think I may be growing up. Not in that "I'm gonna get maried & never have fun again" way of being a grown up, but in that "Hello, my name is Lauren, & I know who I am" kind of way ["The happiness which is like poison at first & like nectar at the end, which springs from a clear understanding of the Self, is said to be of the nature of 'goodness' (satva)", Bhagavad-Gita]. A lot of people don't find this, or search for it forever, but I have been exposed to some beautiful places & amazing (& terrible) people in my life that have brought out parts of me I loved &/or hated. It's important to know who you don't want to be just as it is important to know who you DO want to be. I want to say thank you, to everyone, even the people I can't say thank you to because they're gone (Coach West, my Nana & Papa), I don't know where they are anymore (those two girls from my first year at Camp Kudzu that were an Athiest Asian & a quiet, funny black chica, they were my friends who weren't from Blairsville & were nothing like any Blairsvillians), & people who I hold so close I probably suffocate them (Chels T, Chels V, Sambo, Jesse, Zady Nash, Mom, Dad, Mamaw, Jen Jen, Tu Tu, Professors George & Peg, English Ed Cohort).

Then there are the people who brought out the worst in me. I won't name them, but I love them all the same for showing me who I don't want to be. There are also far away people that I don't hate, but they sailed through my life & left a distinct mark not unlike a death-eater mark (Harry Potter ref, thanks Lawson & Chels V for making me read them). These people are probably the most special to me because I think about them so often even though I do not see or talk to them anymore. Ben Clements is a prime example. He really taught me how to be a leader & teacher. He cared, was selfless, funny, & would do anything to help out kids learn in the woods. He had convictions he didn't waiver on (LNT nut) & showed so much patience & put faith in me like no one ever did before. He'll never know what he meant to me. Jenn Morrell...my Kudzu woman. Always gave me a place to stay in Boston, always kind, the absolute epitome of selfless...if there is an angel in this world, it's here. Tom, you're in Japan, but I owe my adventures partially to you. Kayce/Court/Tay/Caleb/Cody/Kaley...my high school sweet hearts. Even if we never see each other again, I love all so much for putting up with me back in those days...I was such a drag & you loved me anyways. Cody/Tay/Caleb, if you're reading this, I know you're laughing & that's why I like ya, you humble me. Kayce/Court/Sully, if you're reading, I know you're wishing you were here with me, & I wish it, too. Especially you Kayce/Court, you two deserve to get away together to just smile for weeks.

I guess what started as an attempt to figure out what changed in my life to get me here (& by here I don't just mean Ecuador I also mean my mental/spiritual state, but mainly I do mean Ecuador) turned into a big thank-you note. I do graduate in May, so I guess I'll be sending formal invites/thank you's soon, but formal ain't my way. So thanks everybody. Thanks also to books for letting me read them, drop them in water, write in them, & finish them. Thanks for notebooks, for letting my pen scrawl all over you. Thanks to Pfizer for letting my dad work for you & get me through college. Thanks divine & plants, for letting me breathe in new air every day. Thanks body, for letting me live in you for a little but. Thanks everything, a big thanks. Now, I'm going to give myself a hug & you should, too. Close your eyes, say a thank you for what you are, & then smile.

I promise not to be so gooey next time, but I had to get it out of me because I'm not dead & stuff. "One should cultivate the highest good while the sense are not yet frail, suffering is not yet firmly rooted, and adversities have not yet become overwhelming", Kula-Arnava-Tantra.

Simplicty. Patience. Compassion. 

alarms going off.

Yesterday my dear friend & fellow teacher, Kat, was robbed on a main street near a park in Quito at 5 p.m. I had gotten off the bus & said goodbye to her around 4:30 to pick up a package & lug it 8 km back home. I wasn't going to walk, but the traffic was bad, the weather was beautiful, & I had just bought a delicious pastry so I decided walking would be best. I got home around 6, met the other student teachers for trivia at 8, & Kat didn't seem a bit shaken. She referred to a robbery when she talking to her cousin & that's when I asked her what the was talking about:

Parque de Carolina, cerca Amazonas

Amazonas is one of the main roads, always jammed with carros, motos, taxis, bicicletas, & pedestrians. It runs by a mall, a park, a movie theater, & many other buildings & restaurants. At 5:00 pm she left to meet her friend for dinnner & as she walked toward her house on Amazonas two men parted for her & she said she immediately felt strange about it. Seconds later one had grabbed her, put a knife to her throat, & the other starting demanding & taking everything from her. She´s a little girl, very pretty, & could probably befriend the devil, but she said she just gave them everything then they told her to go away. As she told the story, her cousin told me that you have no choice but to give everything because otherwise you WILL get stabbed, shot, taken, whatever. At first I thought these were generic warnings given to tourists, but this is KAT! Strong, awesome, Kat. So the guys told her to go away & she stood there in shook, everything she´d lost running through her mind. A man on a bike apparently saw them take off with her stuff because he took off after the men & started yelling at the police ahead to stop them., they did, got the stolen goods back, slapped one of the guys for yelling rude Spanish slang at Kat & then LET THEM GO.  < Kat

I don't know if it is my love for Kat that's gotten me all shook up or the fact that I have been walking everywhere & acting all resilient & tough because I'm big & have a knife, but I am ready to leave Quito. The city could be beautiful, but the people are suffocating it & me. The buildings upon buildings, people grabbing you, no room to breathe outside...all of it. It is a city I suppose like most others, but it is still different here. I am paranoid everywhere, my heart beats quicker, I am suspicious of everyone,  &I am constantly putting my hand in my pockets & purse to make sure no one has stole my pancreas or meter or wallet. Today at school I decided to plan trips to the jungle, beach, small towns every weekend just to be able to breathe. Even my family here is pushing these boundaries that I have no control over. Yes, it is a cultural thing, but there is also universal respect for others, & grabbing someone, making catcalls, crimes all the time, the stares...there is no respect. It has definitely impacted my teaching & what I expect of my students. Yesterday they were disrespectful so I talked to the leaders in the group & made daily individual/class grades for being disrespectful to me & each other, so today was better in that respect.

Headed here this weekend to excape the scary> 
I just need to let my itchy legs get away, my poor mind needs room to roam, & then, hopefully, the classroom will seem less hostile without constant car alarms for a weekend. I am learning, though...this I know.

Alone?

This week was my first solo excursion in a few ways. As I wrote in an earlier entry, I love my children. As the week progressed, they started testing my boundaries, but we had fun & they learned a lot about the history surrounding "A Raisin in the Sun" & we took a look at "A Dream Deferred," but that didn't go as well as I'd hoped. I'm still trying to figure out how to do the sharing thing when I put the kids into groups because they seem to get bored when a group presents in front of the whole class, even when it takes 3 minutes. They only want to hear themselves talk...not sure what to do about this.

I also had the 7th graders on Friday because my teacher took a sick day. In other words, I was alone in the class all day with every class. I was so excited & the day started off great with the first 7th grade class. My teacher didn't leave any lesson plans because she does the same thing every day: read & discuss. Since they are reading "Flowers for Algernon," I thought we could do more with the allotted 90 minute class period. We read & talked for the first 40 minutes, then I had them draw what they thought two of the characters from the story looked like. After they were done, some of them showed off their pictures and explained why they gave so & so glasses or why Charlie was bald, etc. I thought they were great & they really wanted to read some more. After we got to a particularly interesting part in the book, I made them stop. I thought that this would make them more eager to read on Monday. Then we did a "chalk talk" with the word "Intelligence." I skewed this one a little by asking them which words they thought Charlie has, was going to have, or would never have. They were really into it & some of them asked to read more before class ended instead of playing the game they asked to play at the beginning of the day. CRAZY RIGHT!?  Since there were only 5 minutes left in class, I let the ones who wanted to read read & the others play mafia mainly because they had been so awesome with me & I'm not even their teacher.

As for the 8th graders, I want to continue to do group work with them because they enjoyed the prezi & 2 truths & a lie learning stations we did (below).

Lorraine Hansberry "2 truths & a lie" station

Civil Rights Movement prezi station

In other news, this weekend was the birthday of one of the girls in the program (Brittany) so we all went out Saturday night to celebrate her birthday. Basically we danced until around midnight & we were all tired & sweaty. Us 5 chicas pretty much danced & sang to all the songs in English & pretended to know what all of the others were saying. We jumped, we got balloons, we eyeballed my weirdos...but we've mastered turning down weird Ecuadorians who want to dance: we bring one of our host brothers or cousins & he is our bodyguard. I really love the girls in the program & it's nice because we're all so different, yet we're all teachers so we like to have fun & get a good nights rest. 

Today my body HURT. I did yoga & so much dancing yesterday so my legs & back felt so stiff, but Carol, Kat, & I walked a million miles today so I expect to be even more sore tomorrow :] We walked all the way to the Southern most part of Quito where all of the churches, museums, & Virgen Mary statues are. There are also a lot of amazing restaurants down an alley on that side of town called La Ruba. We had lunch in a small place with lots of windows & fresh air, good smelling food, plants, a spiral staircase, everything one would want in a teeny tiny lunch spot. I got llapangachos because they're my favorite Ecuadorian dish with plantains, avacado, & some tender pork. Carol got some really good lamb & kat got seabass with a delicious mushroom sauce. I have also taken to getting Jugo de Guanabana at every meal (especially after a day of walking) because it's one of my favorite fruits here & all the juices are like smoothies. All of this for $7 & a sunburn, a small price to pay for some yum & buildings that are beautiful at the old age of 500. 

I've also noticed that I really want to venture in any sanctuary or museum not because I feel especially compelled to pray or read about the history of Ecuador in a language I don't understand, but rather because Quito has started making my body ache for isolation. Yesterday I started planning my trip for Isla de Plata, the "poor man's Galapagos." It's cheap ($8 bus ride to the coast, $32 round trip boat ride to the island & $4 a night at a hostel vs. $2000 Gallapagos...decision made). I saw pictures of the huge rocks, waves, blue footed boobies, & humpback whales. As scared as my parents are for me to go alone, I couldn't be more excited. There is no such thing as being "alone" in Quito. Saturday I did a little yoga in the dining room & I tried really hard to only listen to my head, but the constant car alarms & shouting outside creeps always creeps in. Even when I'm in my room I'm never alone because I can always hear my family shouting from upstairs to downstairs or they'll come in without warning while I'm reading or writing or just relaxing. It's part of the culture, a part I definitely could do without. I don't mind the personal bubble part because I like getting a kiss on the cheek everytime I say hello or goodbye, but when I get home from school I just want to be alone in my own head & that's nearly impossible in Quito & in my home. 

sanctuary

simplicity. patience. compassion.

Laurennnn